Reading for Others

Reading for Others

Reading for other people is a profound responsibility. Here's how to do it well:

Before the Reading

• Set clear intentions — you're here to help, not impress
• Ask what they want from the reading — clarity? validation? direction?
• Agree on the question together

During the Reading

• Describe what you see before interpreting — let them participate
• Ask clarifying questions: "Does this resonate with something?"
• Speak in possibilities, not certainties

After the Reading

• Leave them with agency — what can they do with this information?
• Don't extend the session to cover every possible angle
• Suggest journaling or reflection